The power of saying YES!
Have you ever said YES but meant NO?
So many people ran around as people-pleaser they say yes to every request. But afterwards they feel bad because they did not want to go to that birthday, they did not want to do the extra job, they did not want to go out with that person but kinda felt obligated.
I think we ALL are people-pleaser to a certain extend and all want to be loved and appreciated. So it is important for us to get that recognition. But if you are one of these friendly-I-love-you-all-cause-I-sh…-in-my pants-if-you-don’t-love-me-people it is time to step into your power.
This will be scary for you. A NO can feel so very bad when actually saying it. When the word comes out of your mouth. BUT you gotta start somewhere if you actually want to be the person who creates her live and who lives on their terms.
A YES can be so powerful as well, maybe even more powerful if you say yes to the right things, to the things you desire, to the person you want to be.
Here is the thing though, you might not even know who you want to be and what you want to dream… you keep reading stuff about dreams, alignment, power and stepping into your light, but you might not know where to start and what to do.
I have good news, don’t worry it will come if you put in the work! It is a process, most people do not wake up and have a whole vision about their live. If all is fussy and foggy you only need to get out your journal and you write what is most important to you right now.
Yes, only right now! In this very moment.
Well, that is a statement!
Did you do it? What came up. Where there thoughts about what you want and stuff you don’t want anymore?
I suggest you make yourself a list. Put it on a paper, divide the paper by a line and on the right side you write what you want right now and on the left what you have but don’t want to anymore.
A great relationship
I don’t want:
to feel bad
to feel confused
be taken for granted
my relationship that I am not ready to leave
to feel fearful
So whatever comes up for you. Do not limit yourself. It’s your journal, it’s your thoughts and it’s your decision. It’s all YOURS! So go for it!
Don’t forget to breathe.
Next step you do is to close your eyes and to imagine how it would be if you had all the stuff on the left and you let go all the stuff on the right.
To be able to do that you need to start with a YES.
Yes to the stuff on the left. Automatically it’s a NO to the stuff on the right. Makes sense?
Your task now is to pay close attention to all your actions during the course of each day. And to focus on how to get all the stuff from the left. The more clarity you’ll gain and the more you are getting from that list the more you can cross off of the other side. You will notice a shift. And all the strength and power you’ll gain makes you more likely to take even more action, since you are getting result and you are gaining momentum.
Are you ready to try? (Hint: I’d say YES if I were you 😉 )
Then do for it and let me know how it’s going in the comments.
Stop JUST dreaming, act NOW!